PAY
ATTENTION.
We are not going to tell you who to become.
We are going to pay very close attention
to who is already here.
Something has
arrived for you.
Think of the last moment you completely lost track of time.
Keep that.
It might be evidence.
Some things are worth opening.
Some things can only be
discovered by trying them.
CHOOSE ONE.
There isn't a right one. Only the one that catches you.
This is what a season with me feels like.
A life with
more of you
in it.
A private coaching experience built around your actual life.
Eight conversations in which we pay close attention to what you notice, want, try, say and choose, and to what those things might be telling us.
There is no predetermined version of you we're trying to produce.
We follow what becomes interesting.
There isn't one yet.
You haven't lived it.
A glimpse of what a Book of You might hold. Your season writes its own pages.
You made this one.
Imagine what we could collect in a season.
This is what I noticed.
This is what I wanted.
This is what I tried.
This is what I said.
This is what I chose.
Not a new you.
More of you, in the life you're actually living.
I'm CJ.
I notice things.
Patterns. Contradictions. The sentence underneath the sentence. The thing you keep returning to. The choice that doesn't quite match the story you've been telling about yourself.
Then I get curious with you.
Sometimes that becomes a question. Sometimes an experiment. Sometimes a photograph, book, object, sentence or Dispatch arrives at your door.
I'm not here to tell you who to become.
I'm interested in what happens when we pay enough attention to the person already living your life.
A little about my background
ICF-accredited coach (ACC). Psychology and Anthropology. Master NLP Practitioner. More than twenty years working with learning, behaviour and human development.
A season.
Yours to live.
21 September → 18 December 2026
or two monthly payments of €400.
- Private coaching conversations
- 8
- Minutes, each conversation
- 75
- A rhythm agreed together
- ~ fortnightly
- Your Book of You
- Included
- Personal Dispatches
- 5
- Private Becoming Season space
- Optional
- People in this season
- 10
Why this seasonal price?
I am already an ICF-accredited coach and am completing the coaching-experience hours required for my PCC credential. I've chosen to make the final stretch an experiment in the work I most want to create.
The seasonal rate reflects that. This is an opportunity to create a substantial body of work with ten people, below my usual equivalent private rate.
Applications close 18 September 2026, or when all ten places are filled. Each Book of You and the five Dispatches are personally curated.